MM, I think you have gone over the edge. I have known a lot of gay people in my life, worked with a lot of gay people. I don't know what you mean about a "gay mafia". I do know that there are people that want nothing more than to be treated like everyone else and with respect. I'm not asking anyone to do anything against their religion. What if I order a cake, but it is going to be eaten by my guests, some of whom may be gay? Does that person have the moral right to question who I am entertaining to determine whether their religious beliefs will be violated. Do they have the right to ask me if I am straight or gay every time I order a baked good? If you suggest that I don't have a right, what right to they have? Is it okay with you if they post a sign on the door that says "no gays allowed"? Seems a lot like when there was a time in this country when people had a "right" to say "whites only". What was their excuse for that one?
The point is that gay marriage is legal. And people are hiding behind their religion to justify their prejudices. Nothing has changed, just the focus has changed.