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Name:   MrHodja The author of this post is registered as a member - Email Member
Subject:   Cain and Perry
Date:   11/4/2011 10:55:37 AM

Is "harrassment" another one of those things where the definition is in the eyes of the beholder?  If a man propositions a woman, she rejects the proposition, and he never mentions it again is that harrassment?  Is there an accepted definition for harrassment?  I guess it might depend on the circumstances....if it were a supervisor asking it of one of his supervised employees, there certainly could be the element of perceived pressure to do what the supervisor wants or face recriminations on the job - but if it is a casual encounter where there is no work relationship how many times would he have to ask before it becomes harrassment? 

And the really thorny part of this is that he usually does it in private, which means it becomes a she said he said, who to believe issue.  I'm just glad I don't work for a female or supervise a female...makes life much simpler.

Hound, did you perceive a change in attitudes and behavior in the military/defense workplace over your years as a Civil Servant?  Seems to me things have changed quite a bit, especially as women have proven that they belong as peers with the men rather than underling secretaries and typists.  Curious what you might have perceived from the woman's point of view. 
Other messages in this thread:View Entire Thread
Cain and Perry - Talullahhound - 11/4/2011 9:36:08 AM
     Cain and Perry - HARRY - 11/4/2011 10:03:20 AM
          Cain and Perry - Talullahhound - 11/4/2011 10:32:20 AM
               Cain and Perry - MrHodja - 11/4/2011 10:55:37 AM
                    Cain and Perry - lakngulf - 11/4/2011 11:39:03 AM
                    Cain and Perry - Talullahhound - 11/4/2011 5:57:34 PM
     Cain and Perry - MartiniMan - 11/4/2011 1:17:11 PM
          Cain and Perry - Mack - 11/4/2011 4:51:37 PM



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